One Day at a Time

There are some people who like to create problems for themselves -- even (especially) when there are no good reasons for feeling so -- just because it gives them something to do, and a meaning and purpose in their lives.

These are people who have been conditioned not to do anything unless there is a crisis requiring immediate knee-jerk responses -- rather than a more successful longterm plan and strategy for optimizing their prosperity chances.  Such people are not living one day at a time -- but only one second at a time, hoping they will survive the entire day -- and seeming to be surprised and impressed when they do. 

Obviously, it is very nerve-wracking to live and work with those who operate in that fashion -- because there is no greater meaning and purpose to what they are doing.  Every action seems arbitrary and unrelated to any other -- and they like it that way, because that is the expression of their autonomy and independence -- even to their own rhyme or reason.

They are often proud of their "unpredictability" -- as though that made them more free -- than all the others bound by their predictability -- even if it makes the lives of everybody around them better too. Predictably, such individuals become increasingly "isolated" from everybody else's reality -- and entirely within their own.  They become more certain, that theirs is the only one that matters -- and thus become disconnected from the reality of others, as the river of life and thought.  It is the choice they make, and nobody can make any other for them.

That's how many become "set" in their ways -- rather than continuing to grow and change throughout their lives, taking in the new, and letting go of the old.  The mind that is always renewing itself, never grows old -- but the mind clinging to the old -- in preference to the new, cuts them off from the present and future of the shared experience of humanity and its collective wisdom.

That's how people die -- one day at a time -- in cutting themselves off from that which is vital, and life-affirming.  But in that same way, they can choose to renew their connection to the the vital life- force -- one day at a time.  That's how lives are changed -- as well as set, every single day, in every single action, and not by envisioning where one wants to be, thirty years from now -- or any vague time in the future.

What matters -- is everything one has done today, for only one day.  That makes the difference -- starting right now.